For the historical background to this blog post please read 2 Samuel 3:20-34
Introduction: Death, an inevitable reality of life, often strikes unexpectedly, leaving behind sorrow and pain. Reflecting on the tragic demise of Abner, we draw lessons from 2 Samuel 3:20-34, and contemplate how we ourselves can avoid a fool’s death.
Facing the Inevitable:
As Hebrews 9:27 reminds us, death is an appointment each of us must keep: ‘it is appointed unto men once to die.’ For believers, however, the focus shifts from mourning the death of the departed to contemplating their eternal destination. We wonder where they are now. Yes, we miss them here – but – what about them?
Finding Hope in the Gospel:
The Gospel offers hope beyond the grave because, as articulated by the Apostle Paul in Romans 1:16, it holds the power to save all who believe. Even in the face of uncertainty regarding the salvation of our departed loved ones, we trust in God’s sovereignty and leave the matter with him.
Contemplating Abner’s Fate:
Abner, a prominent figure in the early chapters of 2 Samuel, met a tragic end which was marked by deception, a poor decision, delay, and ultimately, destruction. His story serves as a cautionary tale for us today.
King David gave the eulogy at Abner’s funeral and in his remarks he asked the mourners the sad but weighty question: ‘Died Abner as a fool dieth?’ This question is rhetorical, the expected answer to it would be: ‘Yes! Indeed he did.’
Lessons from Abner’s Demise:
1. Deception: Abner fell victim to Joab’s deceit, highlighting the danger of succumbing to the enemy’s lies. Similarly, we must remain vigilant against the deceptions of Satan, who seeks to lead us astray.
2. Decision: Abner’s fatal mistake was the choice he made to return to Hebron, demonstrating his lack of discernment. King David said: ‘Thy hands were not bound, nor thy feet put into fetters: as a man falleth before wicked men, so fellest thou.’ (v.34). Today, by God’s grace, we have a choice. Satan wants to keep us bound hand and foot in the shackles of sin, but Jesus Christ came into the world to free us from the domination of sin and from its eternal consequences. He went to the cross and died as a substitute, bearing the punishment of an offended God on our behalf. He died to provide salvation. We have a decision, a right choice, to make. The wise choice is to trust him for salvation.
3. Delay:
In Old Testament times there was an obligation to avenge the injury or murder of a family member, just as there still is in some cultures today. This activity was governed by what we call the Law of Talion. This comes from the Latin word talis meaning ‘the same as’ or ‘identical’. The idea is that the punishment is meant to equal the crime.
Perhaps this idea is best summed up in the familiar words of Exodus 21:23-25: ‘Eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, burning for burning, wound for wound, stripe for stripe.’
However, not all murder is intentional, such as manslaughter or self-defence, so God in his mercy commanded that 6 of the 48 Levitical towns in the Promised Land be designated Cities of Refuge. Anyone who had committed manslaughter could flee to one of these towns for asylum and be safe from the avenger. Hebron was one of those cities of refuge (Joshua 20:1-9).
Joab met Abner just outside the gate of a city of refuge, took him aside and stabbed him to death. Abner died at the gate of Hebron, just outside the place of refuge. So close! So near and yet so far! Had he gone on through that gate he would have been safe but Abner hesitated at the gate of refuge, a decision that proved very costly. Likewise, we must not delay in seeking shelter in Jesus Christ, the ultimate refuge for our souls.
4. Destruction: Joab’s aim all along was Abner’s destruction, this is mirrored by Satan’s sinister intentions towards humanity. Only through Christ can we find deliverance from such peril.
Conclusion: Death is inevitable, but it need not be a fool’s demise. By embracing the Gospel; avoiding deception, making the wise decision, not delaying in seeking Christ, and thus averting destruction, we can ensure that our legacy is one of faith, not folly. Let us heed the lessons from Abner’s tragic end and choose the path of life in Christ, the only true refuge from the perils of sin and death.
‘For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.‘ John 3:16
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