Decision-making – Written Exposition

Have you ever noticed how comforting a bowl of hot soup can be on a cold day? There’s something about that warmth and flavour that just hits the spot, especially when the weather is chilly. But imagine paying a steep price for a simple bowl of soup – something far beyond what you’d ever intend or expect. That’s exactly what happened in Genesis 25:29-34, where Esau traded his birthright for a bowl of lentil soup.

Understanding the Birthright

In ancient Israelite society, the birthright was a significant privilege, typically granted to the eldest son. It wasn’t just about material inheritance – it was about leadership, authority, and spiritual responsibility. The eldest son would succeed his father as the head of the family and receive a double portion of his estate. Additionally, he would take charge of family worship, assuming the role of priest in maintaining the family’s covenant relationship with the Lord. Esau, driven by immediate gratification, undervalued this immense blessing and traded it for temporary satisfaction. Let us explore what we can learn from Esau’s mistake.

1) A Selfish Desire

Esau the hunter came back from the field one day, exhausted and famished. The aroma of the soup his brother Jacob was cooking was too tempting for him to resist. In that moment, all Esau could think about was his hunger. He begged Jacob for some of the soup, and Jacob, ever the opportunist, saw a chance to gain Esau’s birthright. He opened negotiations: ‘Sell me this day thy birthright.’ What was Esau’s response? He said: “I am at the point to die: and what profit shall this birthright do to me?” (Gen 25:31-32).
Was Esau truly on the brink of death? Probably not. His selfish desire for immediate satisfaction blinded him to the value of his birthright. In his view God’s promises were not worth waiting for. That birthright meant nothing to him for he couldn’t see beyond his immediate need. How often do we, like Esau, focus on the desires of the present moment and disregard the long-term consequences? The pleasures of sin and the world can be tempting, but they are fleeting – Heb 11:25 refers to ‘the pleasures of sin for a season.’ Like Esau, we might be tempted to satisfy our immediate desires without considering the eternal consequences.

2) A Single Decision

Esau’s decision to trade his birthright for soup had far-reaching consequences. From that moment on, he was defined by that impulsive choice. The Bible notes that Esau’s nickname, ‘Edom,’ meaning ‘red,’ was derived from this event (Gen 25:30). One hasty decision can have lasting effects. Esau’s descendants were called ‘Edomites;’ a nation noted for conflicts with the people of God throughout history, all stemming from his poor choice. This reminds us that no one sins in isolation. Our choices affect not only ourselves but those around us, sometimes for generations. The world may offer immediate gratification, but it’s often at the cost of long-term blessings.

3) A Spiritual Disregard

Verse 34 tells us that ‘he did eat and drink, and rose up, and went his way: thus Esau despised his birthright.’ Notice that Esau went HIS way. After satisfying his hunger, Esau got up and left, unconcerned about the birthright he had just despised. He got on with life as usual, doing his own thing his own way, oblivious to the consequences of a single choice. The consequences weren’t immediately obvious, but they came later. When Esau realised the significance of what he had lost, it was too late. Esau begged and pleaded for the blessings of God but was unable to obtain them. He cried bitterly but couldn’t change the outcome (Gen 27:34; Heb 12:17). Esau’s disregard for his birthright is a warning. It’s easy to become so consumed with worldly pleasures that we neglect what is truly important. Don’t be like Esau, who valued temporary satisfaction over eternal blessings.

Summation

Esau’s story teaches us three crucial lessons:

A Selfish Desire: Don’t let immediate desires cloud your judgement and cause you to miss out on God’s future blessings.

A Single Decision: Remember that one decision can have lasting consequences, affecting not just you but others as well.

A Spiritual Disregard: Don’t disregard the spiritual inheritance God offers for the fleeting pleasures of this world.

Instead of living for the here and now, live with eternity in mind. Trust in Jesus Christ, who offers salvation and an inheritance that can never be taken away. 1 Peter 1:3-4 says:

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, which according to his abundant mercy hath begotten us again unto a lively hope by the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, To an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you,

Don’t trade your eternal blessings for a bowl of soup. Choose wisely today, and you’ll secure a future that’s infinitely greater than anything the world can offer.

Hymn: Mission Praise 245. How great is our God

Reading: Exodus 14:1-15

And the LORD said unto Moses, Wherefore criest thou unto me? speak unto the children of Israel, that they go forward.

INTRODUCTION

Times of great change can be a mixed bag of fear and excitement. This week, for some of the young people connected with this church there may be a change of school or perhaps a change of subjects after GCSEs. Maybe others will soon be off to work or university, having recently received their “A” level results. There will be excitement at what has been accomplished so far but also a degree of trepidation at what lies ahead.

Some of you, much older, perhaps find yourselves in a distressing situation, feeling hemmed in and not sure where to turn or what to do next. You are asking yourself: ‘What do I do now?’

BACKGROUND

In the passage which we have read from the book of Exodus the Israelites have recently been delivered from slavery in Egypt. They had witnessed incredible miracles there, including the plagues that struck the Egyptians but spared them, the Passover that killed firstborn Egyptian sons but spared their own, and their release from the many years of bondage that they had endured.

Now, not long after the Exodus, they are at the shore of the Red Sea, with Pharaoh’s army fast approaching from behind. Before them lies the Red Sea; behind them, the advancing Egyptian army. It is a moment of great fear and uncertainty for the people. They are trapped, in a dead end. What should they do now?

As recently liberated slaves not used to making decisions, they have had a crisis of confidence. Moses’ initial suggestion in v.13 was to ‘stand still,’ but that wasn’t going to achieve anything. In their dire situation, loudly expressing great fear and doubt (vv. 11 and 12), the people cried out to Moses, and Moses cried out to the Lord. God’s response to Moses was surprising: ‘Why are you crying out to me? Tell the Israelites to go forward.’

COMMENTS

This evening let us briefly reflect on the message that God gave to Moses and the Israelites in their moment of crisis: ‘Go forward!’ It is one that we can apply to ourselves today: for it calls us to move beyond our fears, doubts and uncertainties. Using this passage as a springboard, allow me to suggest some principles that will help us to ‘go forward’ in our own lives and in our walk with God.

WE MUST HAVE FAITH IN GOD

When God through Moses instructed the Israelites to go forward, he was asking them to trust him completely, in spite of the fact that there was a seemingly insurmountable obstacle before them, i.e. the Red Sea. From a human perspective, they were trapped, they were cornered, there was no way forward. But God’s command was not based on human reckoning; it was based upon his own divine power and purpose.

Sometimes we find ourselves in a similar situation. We face what seems like an impossible obstacle, and we feel trapped by our circumstances. Our natural inclination is to look for an escape route, to find a way back to safety or just to cry out in despair. Yet, God calls us to go forward and trust his instructions even when we cannot see the path ahead. Whenever the way ahead is unclear going forward requires faith. The Apostle Paul reminds us of that in 2 Corinthians 5:7: ‘For we walk by faith, not by sight.’ Faith is believing the promises of God and trusting his ability to make a way forward, even though that may seem impossible.

WE MUST BE OBEDIENT TO GOD’S WILL

I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. Rom 16:1-2

If ye love me, keep my commandments. Jn 14:15

Because the Israelites obeyed God’s command to go forward, they witnessed one of the greatest miracles in the Bible; the parting of the Red Sea. As they moved forward in faith, God acted on their behalf, making a way through. Their obedience unlocked God’s miraculous provision. Whenever we choose to obey God, even if that doesn’t seem to make sense, he will work in us, through us and for us; in ways that we can never imagine.

WE MUST HAVE THE COURAGE TO ACT

God’s instruction to move forward was about more than just physical movement; it also meant stepping outside of their comfort zone. The Israelites had been slaves for around four hundred years. They were accustomed to life in bonds, but now God was asking them to trust him for freedom. They needed to be brave in the face of peril. Similarly, God sometimes summons us outside of our comfort zones. He encourages us to venture into the unknown, to embrace change, and to take risks that may be uncomfortable or even frightening. Whatever the problem, God’s demand to move forward requires us to abandon the safety of what we know and embrace the potential of what God has in store for us.

WE MUST BE ALERT

As we ‘go forward’ through life seeking to obey God’s commands and fulfil his will for us we must always be alert, as we shall encounter many obstacles and face many difficulties along the way. Here in Exodus 14 the Israelites faced the problem of the Red Sea and how to get over it. Their next challenge would be the Sinai Desert and how to cross it; no shelter, lots of heat, sand as far the eye can see, little food and a shortage of water.

By the way, the following chapter, Exodus 15, highlights the importance of water to the Israelites’ during their wilderness experience:

MIGHTY WATERS: Thou didst blow with thy wind, the sea covered them: they sank as lead in the mighty waters. Exod 15:10

MISSING WATERS: So Moses brought Israel from the Red sea, and they went out into the wilderness of Shur; and they went three days in the wilderness, and found no water. Exod 15:22

MARAH WATERS: And when they came to Marah, they could not drink of the waters of Marah, for they were bitter: therefore the name of it was called Marah. Exod 15:23

MANY WATERS: And they came to Elim, where were twelve wells of water, and threescore and ten palm trees: and they encamped there by the waters. Exod 15:27

We must be alert because the enemy is always on our track, seeking to ruin us and prevent us from going forward and reaching our goal. The Apostle Peter warned about this in 1 Peter 5:8 where he wrote about alertness (Be sober, be vigilant;), an adversary (because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about,), and an attack (seeking whom he may devour). Let us be careful!

SUMMATION

How do we ‘go forward’ today?

We must trust God in times of fear and uncertainty.
We must obey God’s commands, confident that he is able to make a way forward even when that seems impossible.
We must have the courage to step out of our comfort zone and accept the new things that God wants to do in our lives.
We must constantly be on the alert in order to avoid obstructions and repel the adversary who seeks to devour us.

Just as the Lord led the Israelites through the Red Sea, he is ready to lead us through our challenges and obstacles, but we must be willing to ‘go forward’ in faith.
Let each of us therefore reflect on those areas of our life where God may be calling us to ‘go forward’ – areas where he is asking us to trust him more, where he is challenging us to step out in faith. This evening let us commit to moving forward, trusting in God to guide us every step of the uncharted way ahead.

Short talk delivered at a midweek prayer meeting 03 September, 2024

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