INTRODUCTION
As we read through the New Testament it soon becomes obvious that ‘Mary’ was a common name in first century Palestine. The name Mary (which is the Greek form of the Hebrew Miriam) is mentioned by Matthew, Mark, Luke and John and the apostle Paul. It can be quite easy to confuse the Marys since the name occurs fifty-four times, in about twenty-nine different passages/settings, so do not be too annoyed with yourself if at times you are not exactly sure which one you are reading about. Even biblical scholars disagree on exactly how many Marys are mentioned in the New Testament. Some think that there are six, some that there are seven and others that there are eight. I am satisfied that there are seven, but will not fall out with anyone who thinks otherwise. So, who are the seven New Testament Marys? Here they are, in no particular order of preference, although the one that would immediately spring to mind is Mary, the Lord’s mother.
1. MARY THE MOTHER OF JESUS
2. MARY MAGDALENE
3. MARY THE MOTHER OF JAMES AND JOSES – Mt 27:56 (also called THE OTHER MARY Mt 27:61)
4. MARY [WIFE] OF CLEOPHAS – Jn 19:25
5. MARY THE MOTHER OF JOHN MARK – Acts 12:12
6. MARY OF ROME – Rom 16:6
7. MARY OF BETHANY
Three New Testament passages mention Mary of Bethany and in each account we find her at Jesus’ feet.
In Luke 10:38-42 we see Mary at his feet – worshipping.
In John 11:28-35 we see Mary at his feet – weeping.
In John 12:1-7 we see Mary at his feet – washing.
Luke 10:38-42 MARY AT HIS FEET – WORSHIPPING
There was great activity in one particular household in Bethany that day; Jesus was coming to visit. We gather from the above passages that Jesus was a close, personal friend of Martha, Mary and their brother Lazarus. Jn 11:5 tells us: ‘Now Jesus loved Martha, and her sister, and Lazarus.’ Their home was always open to him, he was like one of the family. How wonderful it must have been for the Lord Jesus to be received into and entertained in a home where he was welcome! In that home he could unwind and feel at ease, for he was cherished and respected as an esteemed guest. At that home he could be sure of a good meal and a bed to lie on; which was not the norm during his public ministry. As a wandering rabbi and prophet he would have spent many nights sleeping under the stars in the open air. In Matthew 8:20 he spoke to one of the scribes saying: ‘The foxes have holes, and the birds of the air have nests; but the Son of man hath not where to lay his head.’
Martha, anxiously checking that everything was in order and fussing over preparations for his comfort, complained irritably to Jesus that her sister Mary was not helping her. Sensing Martha’s frustration, Jesus gently admonished her: “Martha, Martha”, then added “Mary hath chosen that good part.” What was that good part? We have it in verse 39: ‘Mary sat at Jesus’ feet, and heard his word.’ As Mary sat at his feet and listened to him speak she hung on his every word, not wanting to miss a thing he said. All her attention was focused on him. In contrast to Martha, it seems that Mary understood that what Jesus wanted was fellowship and not food, that as his death was imminent he wanted was someone to talk to, not a feast.
Perhaps you and I tend to be more like Martha, anxious to keep busy in our service for God. What Jesus said about Martha might be true of us too: ‘cumbered about much serving’ and ‘careful and troubled about many things.’ It is all too easy to be caught up in legitimate pursuits – such as church organisation, committee meetings, youth work, gospel outreach in various forms, mission support or even the social aspects of assembly life – so much so that we become too exhausted to pray or read and study the Bible. So often we deprive ourselves of just a few moments’ pause to listen to the Saviour’s voice? In spite of the fact that, due to family and other commitments, your life may be extremely busy, wouldn’t it be good if you could make a conscious effort to regularly set aside just a few minutes each day to meet with Jesus and sit at His feet – the place of discipleship – to learn from Him?
Mary realised that what Jesus would appreciate most was her worship and so she ‘chose’ to take her place as a devoted learner at his feet. That was an act of the will. Mary made that deliberate choice, to spend time with the Lord, and Jesus commended her for that: ‘Mary has chosen the good portion.’ That poses a challenge to you and to me. What shall our choice be? Like Mary, may we choose wisely and well!
John 11:28-35 MARY AT HIS FEET – WEEPING
We have already noticed that Mary of Bethany was a devoted disciple of Jesus. In this chapter we learn that this did not insulate or preserve her from the usual worries and sorrows of life. We began our reading in John 11 at the point where Jesus arrived in Bethany after Lazarus’ death and met Martha, who greeted him (v.21) with ‘Lord, if thou hadst been here my brother had not died’. Jesus spoke words of hope to Martha: ‘I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live: And whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die. Believest thou this?’ She then went and found her sister Mary, telling her: ‘the Master is come and calleth for thee.’ Once Mary heard that she got up quickly and went automatically to the place where she had previously found blessing – the feet of Jesus. Verse 32 says: ‘she fell down at his feet saying unto him, Lord, if thou hadst been her my brother had not died’ (exactly what her sister Martha had already said). Mary prostrated herself at the feet of Jesus because she understood that the one who had taught her was also the one who could comfort her. When Jesus saw Mary weeping inconsolably, it stirred strong emotions within himself too.
‘When Jesus saw her weeping…he groaned in the spirit, and was troubled…Jesus wept’ (John 11:33,35)
There is a difference between crying and weeping. Many people cry when peeling an onion, but weeping is something much deeper. Jesus was not weeping because he was unable to help, for he was about to display his power. He was weeping because his friends were hurting. Are you hurting this evening? I am sure that all of us, at one time or another, have missed a loved one, been heartbroken, had our plans dashed, been in great distress. No-one really seemed to care or understand. Maybe from the depth of a sorrowful heart we have cried out in despair ‘Where is Jesus? If only he were here!’ To those who feel that way tonight, the summons still rings out: “The Master is come and calleth for thee!” Jesus comprehends our sorrows and disappointments; and is ready to offer sympathy and comfort.
Jesus saw Mary at his feet weeping and he understood. He knew that her heart was broken so he wept with her. At his feet she was in a place of shelter and comfort, the place to flee to in time of sorrow.
John 12:1-7 MARY AT HIS FEET – WASHING
Once again we are at a scene in Bethany. Only six days to the Passover, and to the crucifixion of the Lord Jesus. Lazarus had recently been raised from the dead and so there was a dinner, probably to celebrate. Lazarus was reclining at the table with Jesus and, true to form, Martha was serving. The chitter-chatter stopped as into the room came Mary, carrying her most valuable possession – a one pound vial of very expensive spikenard ointment – with which she anointed the feet of Jesus and, as the fragrance filled the house, she dried his feet with her hair.
Once again Mary was misunderstood. Those around her thought that this display of devotion was huge waste of money, and their objections were articulated by Judas Iscariot. Once more Jesus defended her and expressed his appreciation of her service, explaining that her actions constituted a symbolic anointing of his body in preparation for burial.
Mary’s sacrifice was not a waste. It was significant because it was offered out of true devotion to him. Let us ask ourselves: ‘Is there anything that we consider too extravagant or too costly to give to to the one who loved us, to the extent that he was willing to die of the cross to save us?’ If we love him, doesn’t he deserve our all? Mary washed his feet with her ointment and dried them with her hair. At his feet was for her a place of devotion, of consecration and sacrificial giving.
SUMMATION
Mary worshipped and listened to the words of Jesus at His feet. Mary wept at the feet of Jesus and received comfort. At his feet Mary seized an opportunity to do something for Jesus. That was her thanksgiving to the Lord, and it was a timely offering for he was crucified within a week. What about you? What about me?
Have we been at his feet worshipping? Do we take time to listen to what he says?
Have we been at his feet weeping?
Have we washed his feet with a precious offering that honours him?
These Gospel passages are wonderful testimonies to a woman who really loved the Lord. If we love him, let us be found at his feet too.